Qasim Ali Shah - A reformer

A reformer is someone who tries to change and improve something such as a law or a social system.

“Dark intramural represents a dark exterior” Qasim Ali Shah

If you are filled with true knowledge and wisdom, you will proliferate it to other like a glowing lamp so it is essential to have a firm grip of knowledge, wisdom, and wit if you have self-confidence and wisdom you can change people’s mind, and a trainer is himself a reformer and he touches the emotion part of an individual. A trainer speaks on basis of his experience, knowledge, wisdom, and results

“A reformer gives food of thought to an audience” Qasim Ali Shah

In this era, we look upon a term trainer and mentor. A trainer is a transformer he triggers a change in society, he plays a role like a catalyst hoping for a dramatic change. But for this, it is essential that he has a firm belief of change. If he does not believes that he can positively change people mind and he himself lacks in gaining knowledge he cannot be a reformer.

“The data you absorbs after sometime built in a way like a river and you start producing data” Qasim Ali Shah

A reformer is a person who produces knowledge. He will be not in a condition of producing his knowledge until he absorbs knowledge from people, books and incidents through which he passed throughout his life, once he starts picking up data, with time it finds a way and comes out in a productive way.

“You knowledge defines your age after death” Qasim Ali Shah

Qasim Ali Sah is a reformer as he serves mankind and delivers a knowledge which changes their life and thinking perspective. The knowledge and services he delivered to mankind will be remembered up to a mark even after his death. Qasim Ali Shah uses to say, “If your produced knowledge is of no worth for mankind, it’s useless”. The knowledge must be capable to bring change and modification in others life. The biggest knowledge is of civilization. Qasim Ali Shah worked upon and produced a true knowledge of welfare of mankind and serves to flourish them. Hazard Ali (R.A) says “if there was no prophet (PBUH), we were not even capable to tend and rear sheep”. So it’s obvious there was a constructive aspect in prophet (PBUH) personality. He (PBUH) guided every aspect of living a successful and happy life.

“A good mentor is one who tells his own mistakes to their students to save their time” Hazrat Ali (R.A)

In other words, one who makes his work a brand is a reformer like in Qawali-Nusrat faith Ali Khan, in painting -Leo nard da Vinci, in physics-Einstein and Newton. All of them turned the tables in their era by propping new innovative ideas and ways of performance in their respective fields.

“But all this never happens without the blessings of GOD” Qasim Ali Shah

Now, what are the basic characteristics which must be a part of life to be a reformer? These characteristics play a crucial role in carving a person into a reformer. The first characteristic adapted to be a reformer is an attachment. One must be attached to his audience make them their own and teach them the right path. One who understands the fact that life is finite, he gives himself to others and lives forever in their hearts.

“You cannot teach goats in the tone of the lion” Qasim Ali Shah

Qasim Ali Shah in his own life kept people attached to him, it was deep in his character to keep his students attached with him, this was the reason that when he started his academy students kept attached with him and with the time his past students became a part of his team of the academy. Further on throughout his life, it was the attachment which kept on helping him in making public relation and team building

A reformer gives unconditional and unlimited love, he loves infinitely even to those who are your enemies or back bitters. Don’t be a conditional lover. Being unconditional Lover you will be a magnet for others, people will automatically get attracted towards you. Qasim Ali Shah delivered unconditional love. He delivered his services to everyone with the same standards. He was never conditional in delivering his services. From the start of his academy, he taught a large number of students without any payback with the same love as other and still now he delivers free sessions on different topics in co-operating and educational sectors and counseling to business, career and personal development

“Discover a goal in your life for which you can pay your life” Qasim Ali Shah

The reformer must be one who can sacrifice. If you do more than what you say others to sacrifice you are on the way to be a reformer. As much as a man is great, his sacrifice is great. Qasim Ali Shah gave many sacrifices throughout his life. In his student life he started his own academy and was interested to continue with Central superior services (CSS) but left it as he and his family was not financially stable and his further education was somehow direct or indirect financial disturbance for his family, so he sacrificed his interest, similarly throughout his life he kept on giving sacrifice.

“Challenge gives you the glory” Qasim Ali Shah

A reformer knows how to face challenges and how to use them in a constructive way to build himself strong. Life brings challenges to groom you.it is a fact that one only learns from failures and challenges, we can get this from an example that a zoo lion is a prey of hounds due to the fact that he had never faced challenges like a jungle lion. Today Qasim Ali Shah a fabulous personality is just because of the challenges he faced in his life, he took every downfall in his life as an opportunity to for personal development and improved himself step by step and kept on learning from every challenge. It is obvious that a stage comes in life when you are thankful for that challenge you faced in your past and you will realize that you were not capable of this glory without that challenge.

“Dreams launch revolutions in your life” Qasim Ali Shah

A reformer slogs within the cloud of his vision. One day you have to die so live an honorable life with a vision to do something more. With a vision and marked goals, one is motivated to achieve and fulfill them. Even if one fails to achieve his goal but if the path on which he is working is right he is a conqueror. As I learned about people, I got more knowledge about their perceptions and the challenges that are in front of them. Everyone is willing to bring about change in society but somehow lacks in the way. You can be a changer, a reformer by just appreciating, scarifying, contributing with a vision and on heavier end by understanding the mind of your audience, you have to get down to their level of minds and understand the way they pick up things then you can breach in to positively change them, else your efforts are all in vain.

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Your little contribution can make a huge difference

“Life is not accumulation, it is about contribution”. - Stephen Covey

It is used to be thought that the events that changed the world were things like big bombs, maniac politicians, huge earthquakes, or vast population movements, but it has now been realized that the things that really change the world, according to Chaos theory, are the tiny things. A butterfly flaps its wings in the Amazonian jungle, and subsequently a storm ravages half of Europe. Qasim Ali Shah always emphasized the point that small changes bring huge uprisings. A small contribution in a society is much worthy because individually we are drops and together we are an ocean.

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“Nobody can predict the future, you just have to give your all to contribution”- Qasim Ali Shah

As I learned about people, I got more interested in the gaps between them as a civilization relative to the challenges that are in front of them. And one of the gaps I have seen is around the simple concept that everyone is connected and playing his own part. We probably heard this many times, in fact, it is an element of every spiritual tradition of humankind. Whenever I hear people mentioning this phrase “we are all connected”, they do so in a way that something they wish that they can believe it’s true. They think it is an abstract or esoteric, a thing that they really wish that universe was like that. Through a story of breath and heart, I am going to describe that everything is connected and your small contribution can cause a dramatic change in society as well as the future, in a very concrete and understandable way.
The deep calm breath we are taking was not possible 3 billion years ago. During that time period we were having the approximately same amount of nitrogen in the atmosphere but no oxygen at all. Instead, we were having huge amounts of carbon dioxide. The only organism that could exist at that time were single cell organisms. Luckily for us, one of the organisms that were alive at that time was cyanobacteria, having a special trick called photosynthesis (taking energy from sun and transforming carbon dioxide to oxygen and water). Over the course of 2.5 billion years little by little these bacteria spread over the planet and converted all the carbon dioxide in to oxygen that we now have. It was a very slow process, first, they have to saturate the seas, the lands with oxygen and just 900 million years ago oxygen stated to build up in the atmosphere.  About 600 million years ago a dramatic change occurs, the ozone layer was formed from the oxygen that was released from cyanobacteria into the atmosphere. We take the ozone layer as a small deal but actually before the formation of ozone earth was not able to sustain complex multicellular organisms like human beings. Nothing we are familiar with today could exist without the contribution of that cyanobacteria. And they actually never left us, this character of cyanobacteria was eventually captured by the plants and are called chloroplast. Tons of chloroplast is trapped in leaves contributing photosynthesis and generating energy for plants continuing to be another half of our lungs on earth. In this way our breath are deeply united, our out-breath is mirrored by their in-breath of plants and our in-breath are mirrored by their out-breath

contribution of cyanobacteria

Imagine for a moment that you are such cyanobacteria 2.5 billion years ago, you might be born, lived a couple of weeks and died. You have gone to feel like nothing really changed, you are having no purpose in this life, the world I came to is exactly the world I left. But the thing you would not understand is that every breath you took contributed to the possibilities of countless lives after you, lives you will never see, lives we are all part of today. It is worth thinking that may be meanings of our lives are not even under the scope of our understandings because it was true for every one of those organisms and it may also be true for us

Now we are moving to the story of heart, at this moment your hearts are beating, and the reason is to move a molecule through blood called hemoglobin. The heart of this complex molecule is a single atom of iron which binds the oxygen and allows it to flow through our circulatory system. One thing you may not know is that the universe started with only helium, hydrogen and no iron at all. But due to the processes of stars exploding and forming, again and again, iron was able to form. But the story does not end here, if we scrutinize way back on the level of hundred thousands of galaxies, the most robust way of star formation is galactic collisions which took half a billion of years. Galaxies smashing into each other under the gravitational influence and interstellar gasses mixing together setting on fire with new star formation across the entire galaxy. This gravitational dance of hundred thousand galaxies squirreling together derived the creation of iron that courses through each and every vein with every heartbeat.

iron produced by star collisions

“The compound effect is like the growth of tree”- Qasim Ali Shah

As a tree takes time consistent nourishment to grow, we also need time ad consistent learning to develop our personality. Now, this all leads to the question that in what manner we are going to do that? We are blessed with a very beautiful gift of faith and consciousness which makes us different from all other animals. We can deeply understand the connectivity. It is a truth to be told that every champion, every victorious person, every king and every winner has felt in the urge to quit. However hard it is, it may take you twice as long, you might not move as quickly but don’t you quit, you do make a difference. There is something that you would lose if you were not there, you do make the difference. It does not matter what you have done in one day, what you have done consistently matters. Your faith, values, consistent efforts, decision, and patience will ultimately give you a huge result.

“People find meaning and redemption in the most unusual human connections.”

I think a lot of us understand that we exist in this marvelous universe but we feel our existence as a tiny unimportant thing which is 1 out of the society of 7 billion people in this universe and how can we matter? We just think about this like a container relationship that all goodness comes from outside to the inside and there is nothing special about us. But Qasim Ali Shah elaborates the power of being by saying,” the way we are in our lives, the way we affect our family and friends begins to change the future and universe itself”. I wish us all to realize the truth of compound effect and come together with faith, knowledge and understanding that our tiny efforts are connected to bring out enormous results.

Does creativity helps learning?

 “Everybody has an interest in education. All kids have tremendous talents but we sounder them”-Ken Robinson

Every single person is born with a creative mind, strength, interest, and talent that you can find and you can build a life on. But individuals are thrown into an inadequate educational system and are expected to adopt one of the trending careers law, medical, engineering or IT by their parents. They are compelled to grow in such an inadequate educational system to comply with the trending career requirements, ruining their own differential creativity and strengths.

“We do not grow into creativity. We grow out of it, or rather we get educated out of it”- Ken Robinson

Our educational system is predicated on the idea of academic ability, the reason is there was no system of public education before the 19th century and it all was to comply with the need of industrialism, so the hierarchy of educational content was designed with the subjects of need on top and kids remained benignly away from the subjects they liked. On the ground reality, it was thought you will not get the job by doing what you like, don't do music you are not going to be a musician, don’t do arts you are not going be an artist. But now profoundly mistaken, the whole world is engulfed in revolution.

Secondly, academic ability is dominated on our intelligence because the universities have designed the system of the entrance. All over the world, the system of public education is a protracted process of university entrance with a consequence that highly talented, capable and creative students think that as they were not good at school, wouldn't be valued or actually stigmatized. It is now crucial to rethink about our intelligence, we know 3 things about intelligence one it's diverse, we think about the world in all ways we experience things: visually, kinesthetically, by sounds and in abstract terms. Second, intelligence is dynamic. It’s highly interactive and third, intelligence is distinct. All this collectively gives rise to creativity and multitasking ability

Creativity is the process of having original ideas having values that come about through the interaction of different disciplinary ways of same things. All kids are not the same and their performance in school doesn’t define their caliber. Many successful scientists, philosophers, and businessmen like Einstien, Thomas Edison and Bill gates etc. were high school dropouts.

“Creativity is contagious, pass it on” – Albert Einstein

Qasim Ali Shah from his start of teaching promotes and sticks to a fact that without creativity we can’t enhance the performance and learning ability of a student. He himself felt throughout his life that it was his teacher’s creative approach that led him for his self-discovery. He always tried to enhance and pull out the creativity from his students and guides them to exceed according to their passion. According to Qasim Ali Shah our only hope for future is to adopt a new conception of human ecology which must acknowledge the richness of human capacity. We have to rethink the fundamental principles on which we are educating our children.  

There are multiple examples of top profile persons who are on top just because of their creative approach. A kid who struggled in middle school, in high school he spent most of the time hiding himself in a bathroom escaping from reading aloud in the classroom. He was diagnosed with dyslexia, or a language-based learning disability in 4th grade and ADD- attention defecate hyperactivity disorder in 5th grade and was dropped out of school but he believed that he was different from others. He re-enrolled himself in high school and his relatives said: “he will be a high school dropout or will end up as a loser”. But he beat those odds and transcended those low expectations. He entered the university, got a supporting teacher and was interested to keep English subject as his major. He walked into academic enrollment office and said “ I want to study some English literature here”, the officer opened his IEP- individualize educational plan and laughed saying that he will not approve that as major, you should consider something less intellectual. He was deflated like a balloon and went back to his teacher and told him that they are not going to approve English literature as major due to my poor school results. His teacher said “Your old school judgment can never define your future. Go back and prove that bastard wrong” and next day he enrolled himself in 4 literature classes. This kid was “Jonathan Mooney”: a dyslexia writer, entrepreneur, activist, and public speaker.

“Marks are important for exams, education is important for life”

Similarly, Jenilyn a hopeless school girl. Teachers told her parents she is sick having a learning disorder and she can’t concentrate. Her mother took her to a specialist doctor. Jenilyn was asked to sit on a chair alone in a room until doctor discusses all her problem with her mother privately. Going out of the room doctor turned on the radio and asked her mother to watch her from the window. The minute they left the room she was on her feet moving with the music. After watching a few minutes Doctor said her mother “She is not sick, she is a dancer. Take her to a dance school”. Today Jenilyn is a famous multi-millionaire choreographer and dancer having her own dance academy.

These kids believed that if they were deficient they were different. Yes, they are different in the truest sense of the word but the things that really disable individuals are the ways in which those differences are treated by others. Qasim Ali shah himself is trying to bring some reforms in educational systems because he believes that yes, creativity helps learning.

“Creativity now is as important in education as literacy and we should treat it with the same status”- Ken Robinson

I think we can’t afford this. In the next 30 years, more people will be graduated from education than the beginning of history, with a combined knowledge of technology and transformation efficiency of it on work. Secondly, degrees are of no worth anything. A few decades back if you have a degree you have a job and if you didn’t have a job you didn’t want one. Now people with degrees are ahead to homes playing video games because now you need a Master’s degree for the job previously demanding Bachelor’s degree and similarly now a Ph.D. for another one. It is all the process of academic inflation, it all indicates that the whole educational structure is shifting beneath our feet. It is important to develop freedom of expression, emotional development, thinking capability, problem-solving skills, passion, better interactive communication and future opportunities in children to celebrate the gift of human imagination. Using it wisely and the only way we can do it is by seeking our creative capacities for the richness they are, and our children for the hope they are, by educating them so that they can face the future and make something out 

Qasim Ali Shah - A Multiplier

"If your action inspires others to dream more, to learn more and become more; you are a multiplier”

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In this advanced faster world of competition, business cycles, and pressure on innovation with limited resource utilization, it is important for a person in leading role to multiply the qualitative aspects of their employees in an effective way. Now it is not enough to be a genius. It is all about how you make everyone smarter in your surrounding- it’s time to be a genius maker.

On December 25, 1980, out of a town of District Gujrat, Punjab, a person took birth. His family moved to Lahore. Since his teenage life, the books were an attraction for him. He took part in a talk about rivalries in his school life. He began his career mission as an officer in Pakistan’s considerate administrations. Later on, he started his academy in Gulshan e Ravi, Lahore. However with time he started teaching and step by step advanced into turning into an expert coach, open speaker, essayist, and columnist, written a couple of books and also has facilitated his own projects on Television, Radio and social rostrums like facebook and youtube along with his own channel under Ultimately established his own particular institute in Lahore. This astonishing remarkable person was “Qasim Ali Shah”

Now if we get deep in to life of this marvelous personality "Qasim Ali Shah” we will find him full of multiple valuable qualities like honesty, integrity, focusing, decision making, good communication, commitment, creativity and leadership, But if we look around we find much with similar values but not having such peak of sustained success in a short interval, So what is the reason behind?  The answer lies in a single word “Multiplier”.

A Multiplier is someone who uses their intelligence to amplify the smarts and capabilities of the people around them. Multipliers liberate people to think, to speak, and to act with reason. They create an environment where the best ideas surface and where people do their best work. The question “why” is at the core of their thinking. They ponder possibilities. They want to learn from people around them. They are a Talent Magnets, the multiplier can identify someone’s genius! They can get more from them! They are liberators and challengers! They think People get smarter by being challenged! They are decision makers!

“Whenever you apply positional leadership model, your team becomes hypocrite" Qasim Ali Shah

Qasim Ali Shah explains the lead with two models first one positional leadership and second is inspirational leadership. The first model is a reflection of diminishers and the second one is a beautiful reflection of multipliers. He identifies that hypocrite, hate, blame culture and loss of time, energy and resources are the major cones of a positional leadership model in which a leader is stuck to the point “I am what I am” or “I just lead the way I lead” which common but terrible mindset of a leader.

“Extraordinary works are done by heart, not as a job" Qasim Ali Shah

It is not wrong to apply positional leadership model but it must be modified with inspirational leadership model for effective and efficient teamwork.  The inspirational model is highly concerned with the behavior and attitude of the leader, a leader has all the power and authority in the project but despite of all that leader is operating with the strings of behavior and positive attitude resulting in pros which are alternatives of cons of positional leadership. Applying an inspirational leadership model will encourage team workers to consider the project as their own project and all these pros are directly proportional to efficiency.

“You are not successful unless your team members are moving towards success" Qasim Ali Shah

Qasim Ali Shah always created a motivating domain in his session and working place (organization) for comfortable, effective and intense bold thinking. He promoted rigorous debate and participation to help generate buy-ins and getting hard on issues and data, but empathetic towards the human. He is fully equipped with a self-deprecating wit and sense of humor, which reduces his stress and increase his empathy. He unleashes other people's genius to drive others' careers, and as an ultimate result, his organization became a reputed place to grow – Consequently shinning off like a virtuous cycle of growth and wins.

“If a man practices like a leader, God makes him a leader”

To apply inspirational leadership model Qasim Ali Shah suggests 5 major points for leaders to boost energy in your team:

1.  Acknowledgment
2.  Appreciation
3.   Selfless love
4.   Positive Feedback
5.   Coaching

Coach always determines the potential of his human resource. Qasim Ali Shah use to say "I use to hire a team member or employee with the freedom of choosing his own task domain to express his full potential”

“One who never respects his work will never get respect" Qasim Ali Shah

Qasim Ali Shah didn't always try to do everything himself and for its credit; he learned the way how to hold back and give others margins for innovative think, trial, fail, absorb and grow. As a payback, he only expected the best work from his team. Qasim Ali Shah being a multiplier is not only a good listener but also a liberator. He always encouraged questions from his students in session as well as his team members and also acknowledged them.He usually says "Consider the rock bottom of your team as a crucial part of your work"

Qasim Ali Shah understood the fact that leading an effective team, uptake of their ideas and opinions, putting them into challenges after analyzing their capabilities and making sound decisions after sparking debates is the only way to lead an effective and cooperative way. He utilized every brain and hear every rising voice in his team and organization to create a movement instead of a revolt. He used to stretch individual capability and teamwork capacity of their employees.

He never assumed that his team is not smart, will never be able to figure it out without me, He always assumed his team smart and capable of making results out of tasks and launching new beneficial projects. He just defines his ownership, invest resources on team projects and hold his team accountable to him.

Qasim Ali Shah is an example of leaders who use their intelligence to amplify the smarts and capabilities of the people around them. When these type leaders walk into a hall, light bulbs glow overheads of team or audience; ideas start sliding and problems start getting solved. These are the motivational leaders who stretch their team beyond their limits to extract wonderful results, known as Multipliers; the need of today's world with an aim to do mu

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METAMORPHOSIS of Emotions | Channelize Your Emotions

Writer: Yousaf Ishtiaq Chughtai

“I cannot make you understand. I cannot make anyone understand what is happening inside me. I cannot even explain it to myself.” Franz kafka

Our emotions are such strong conscious experience characterized by intense mental activity or a certain degree of pleasure or displeasure. In our lifes emotional management is important for achieving goals and arranging factors of productivity in an effective manner. In this domain Qasim Ali Shah simplifies the theory of emotional intelligence and management given by Danial Goldman. If you have average intelligence but the strong positive approach and emotional intelligence you will be a tycoon of future. If you have no EQ, your team will never perform in an effective way so it is important to flourish your emotional intelligence, appreciate your team, be a self-loving and give positive feedbacks.

“Skills of skilled man are all in vain unless he is not emotionally strong” Qasim Ali Shah

Our educational systems are just based on the strategy of passing students through a process of memorization which is just 1 intelligence out of 9 proposed by Haward gardener. Books are just essential for knowledge of a specific course like bachelors and masters level education. For life, there is one thing more than the books, it is emotional intelligence. Our educational system just focuses on one type of 9 intelligence which is memorization.

Haward Gardner made a research on retarded children and found that there are 9 bits of intelligence like musical, logical and interpersonal etc. Then in 90’s Denial Goldman proposed a new intelligence he named it as “emotional intelligence”-father of all bits of intelligence.

According to researchers, IQ only plays 15% role in life and EQ plays the 85%. As 85% is a big number but still in our system no one speaks and teaches us about EQ.

 “It is the peak of ferocity to control emotions, will make you ashamed by emerging out on a wrong time” Qasim Ali Shah

We are always taught to control our emotions like to control aggressiveness with a reference of holy verse of Qur'an which have a meaning in Urdu “to control your aggression” But is this true that our Holy book Quran is teaching us to control our emotion of aggression” Whereas controlling emotion cans can play a destructive role in personality development. Answer is NO

When we go back to original Arabic words of the verse we found that the Arabic word “iqamat” meaning “to link a filled well with the empty one”, in Urdu, we have no suitable single word for this word but in English, we have a word “channelize”. It was a just misinterpretation of the holy verse in Urdu

 “Hold aggression as a constructive part of your life” Qasim Ali Shah

We must learn the ways to hold our emotions and channelize them in an effective, positive and beneficial ways, our systems are unable to teach us in this aspect. Find aims and goals and setting your life targets are the best ways to channelize emotions. Your aggression is like a fuel, burn it to accelerate your life toward your goals and channelize it to achieve your goals. We are just using our emotions in a destructive way by bashing and spoiling our own personality.

“Controlling aggression will ultimately de-shape the personality” Qasim Ali Shah

If you ever visit a jail you will find highly educated people in jail due to crimes like murders, and the reason behind this is lack of emotional management. Even battles came to blow and thousands of civilians died just because of one leader’s aggression (see Napoleon’s history)

Similarly, like aggression the other biggest emotion is love. Qasim Ali Shah mentions it as “king emotion”. He refers a book “think and grow rich” by Napoleon Hills telling about the reasons behind success, the writer tells he studied 2000 biographies of successful people concluding that behind all these love emotion was a robust cause. Qasim Ali Shah mentions love emotion as a strong emotion, it is the single emotion that tends a person to focus and takes to the highest level of humanity. This emotion creates such a gap that even with every comfort in life, one feels uncomfortable. Kings become beggar just for love so is love emotion controllable? No, but one can channelize it.

“The worst part is to control emotions, emotional management is to channelize it” Qasim Ali Shah

Unfortunately, in our system of education, we find fewer movies and stories about our leaders, singers and actors who got success just because they were unable to get their love. No one ever told us that our great leader the founder of Pakistan “Jinnah “ was deeply in love with her wife “Rattee” and her death channelized him to be a great leader. We studied how Pakistan was carved on the world’s map but never studied the life of great leaders, which made him a leader. Love emotion never dies but sleeps after 38 days if you don't give time, attention and sacrifice, love emotion has a life, charms of this emotion become lesser to a little after 18 months of love marriages. You can't hold the love emotion, the only way to hold it to find a target and focus what you learned from love on your goals.

“Learning to manage your emotions built self-confidence” Qasim Ali Shah

In short, emotions are strongly linked to memory and experience. If something worst has previously happened in your life, your emotional response to the same stimulus is likely to be strong. It is vital to be aware of our own and other’s feelings. Highly emotionally intelligent people always do it. Like other skills, it is a skill that can be developed and is well worth acquiring.